You Don’t Get to Have an Opinion

First, a word about women’s expectations. Women want the effervescent circus, to be childish, to have incessant fun, to be entertained, to show their ass (figuratively and literally) to who they want, how they want, and when they want… To not have to be introspective, to not have to consider consequences, to not be held accountable… In short, to remain ignorantly, blissfully immature. They actually expect this!



Here’s the thing. Lots of guys will put a with quite a lot of bullshit to be getting some regular sex with a girl they actually enjoy fucking. I don’t think there’s really anything wrong with it, as long as the guy is getting what he wants and its not self-destructive over-all. BUT, if a woman really wants they guy to basically take care of everything, so that she gets to play manic pixie girl all day every day, then she doesn’t get to have an opinion on how he gets shit done. You don’t like the way I’m doing it honey, then do it your damn self.

I was gonna write a bunch of stuff about certain situations I have to deal with, but really, I think that’s all that’s needed. Don’t like how I’m doing it? I don’t care. You can just do it yourself then.



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Readership: Men in relationships with women they value.

An abridged version of this article was previously published by the author on Return of Kings:What To Do When A Girl Tries To Make You Jealous (April 15, 2018).

The outline of the present article is as follows.

  1. Introduction
  2. Is Jealousy really Love?
  3. Why does she play the jealousy game?
  4. How a man should react.
  5. Specific Points and Plays.
  6. What to do when (she says) you failed her (idealistic) expectations.
  7. Dealing with Dating Sites.
  8. Dealing with Exes.
  9. Conclusions

Edvard Munch Jealousy 1 “Jealousy” by Edvard Munch, ca. 1907.

1. Introduction

‘The Jealousy Game’ is a game that most women play at some point in a relationship, some more than others. The game works like this. She picks out another man, usually one she has at least a moderate degree of attraction towards, and she flirts with him, either by talking about him in an adoring…

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Tell Me Why I should Give A “#&*@!” About Celebrity Opinions

McConaughey is pushing for one gun ban, one on “assault weapons,” which will only lead to another gun ban. The next step will be all semi-automatic weapons. Then perhaps all handguns. Why shouldn’t Americans be allowed to defend themselves the way they did 30, 40, 50 years ago?

McConaughey asked his friends who are gun owners to “take one for the team” by giving up their “assault weapons.” I’m not sure what “team” he’s on, but I choose Team Freedom.

I really don’t get why I should give a fuck about movie, music, media left-wing opinions on just about any freaking topic you would like to suggest. I remember a long time ago I heard that Ted Danson was doing something with some “protect the oceans” gang. All I could think was “What da fuck does Sam Malone from Cheers know about ocean eco-systems?”.  Just what some hippie told him is all, so fuck that guy. Same goes for the rest of them.

This What It Looks Like When a Normy Wakes Up


In a separate post, Zapollo commented:

I think today was the day it finally hit home to me that America, as currently constituted, cannot last. Some kind of division — via secession or some other means — is simply unavoidable at this point.

The occasion for my epiphany: This Google memo thing. I was trying to have a reasonable discussion with some lefty friends on Facebook about this, and it was impossible. They just kept turning it into a burn-the-witches shout-fest. Every time I tried to steer the conversation back towards calm discussion, they doubled down on their ritual list of condemnations: Racist, sexist, homophobic, blah blah blah. They strongly implied that I should not have the right to talk about any of this stuff. I got the distinct impression that if they had the power at that moment to throw me in prison for crimethink, they wouldn’t have hesitated to do so. One of them dropped what seemed to me a very subtle hint — I could be reading this wrong, but this was how it came across — that maybe, just maybe, a Khmer Rouge-style cleansing of society was necessary.

That was scary, and that was what prompted my moment of clarity.


Yet his exposure of the government’s consistently erroneous teachings on diet is almost funny…

A political thread runs through Taubes’s writings on diet. He shows the government to be the prime purveyor of myths and falsehoods on the subject. Taubes is a sober writer. I don’t think he is ever intentionally humorous. Yet his exposure of the government’s consistently erroneous teachings on diet is almost funny. It’s the dietetic analogue of political incorrectness. Gillespie touches briefly on this element of Taubes’s work in the interview.

So were they wrong or were they lying to promote an agenda?

The 1970s were a lousy decade. Embarrassing moviesdreadful music and downright terrifying clothes reflected the national mood following an unpopular war, endless political scandals and a faltering economy.

Popular culture was consumed with decline, especially Hollywood. The Omega Man, Soylent Green, Damnation Alley and countless other dystopian films showed a planet wrecked by war, pollution and neglect. In large part, the entertainment industry was reflecting the culture at large.

In 1970, the first Earth Day was celebrated — okay, “celebrated” doesn’t capture the funereal tone of the event. The events (organized in part by then hippie and now convicted murderer Ira Einhorn) predicted death, destruction and disease unless we did exactly as progressives commanded.

Behold the coming apocalypse as predicted on and around Earth Day, 1970:

  1. “Civilization will end within 15 or 30 years unless immediate action is taken against problems facing mankind.”  — Harvard biologist George Wald
  2. “We are in an environmental crisis which threatens the survival of this nation, and of the world as a suitable place of human habitation.” — Washington University biologist Barry Commoner
  3. “Man must stop pollution and conserve his resources, not merely to enhance existence but to save the race from intolerable deterioration and possible extinction.” — New York Times editorial
  4. “Population will inevitably and completely outstrip whatever small increases in food supplies we make. The death rate will increase until at least 100-200 million people per year will be starving to death during the next ten years.” — Stanford University biologist Paul Ehrlich
  5. “Most of the people who are going to die in the greatest cataclysm in the history of man have already been born… [By 1975] some experts feel that food shortages will have escalated the present level of world hunger and starvation into famines of unbelievable proportions. Other experts, more optimistic, think the ultimate food-population collision will not occur until the decade of the 1980s.” — Paul Ehrlich
  6. “It is already too late to avoid mass starvation,” — Denis Hayes, Chief organizer for Earth Day
  7. “Demographers agree almost unanimously on the following grim timetable: by 1975 widespread famines will begin in India; these will spread by 1990 to include all of India, Pakistan, China and the Near East, Africa. By the year 2000, or conceivably sooner, South and Central America will exist under famine conditions…. By the year 2000, thirty years from now, the entire world, with the exception of Western Europe, North America, and Australia, will be in famine.” — North Texas State University professor Peter Gunter
  8. “In a decade, urban dwellers will have to wear gas masks to survive air pollution… by 1985 air pollution will have reduced the amount of sunlight reaching earth by one half.” — Life magazine
  9. “At the present rate of nitrogen buildup, it’s only a matter of time before light will be filtered out of the atmosphere and none of our land will be usable.” — Ecologist Kenneth Watt
  10. “Air pollution…is certainly going to take hundreds of thousands of lives in the next few years alone.” — Paul Ehrlich
  11. “By the year 2000, if present trends continue, we will be using up crude oil at such a rate… that there won’t be any more crude oil. You’ll drive up to the pump and say, ‘Fill ‘er up, buddy,’ and he’ll say, ‘I am very sorry, there isn’t any.'” — Ecologist Kenneth Watt
  12. “[One] theory assumes that the earth’s cloud cover will continue to thicken as more dust, fumes, and water vapor are belched into the atmosphere by industrial smokestacks and jet planes. Screened from the sun’s heat, the planet will cool, the water vapor will fall and freeze, and a new Ice Age will be born.” — Newsweekmagazine
  13. “The world has been chilling sharply for about twenty years. If present trends continue, the world will be about four degrees colder for the global mean temperature in 1990, but eleven degrees colder in the year 2000. This is about twice what it would take to put us into an ice age.” — Kenneth Watt

Quotes from “Earth Day, Then and Now,” by Ronald Bailey, May 1, 2000.

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One Of My All-Time Favorites — Splendid Isolation

…redheads, that is. It is a great pity that most memories of flame-haired beauty Greer Garson are going to be in black-and-white, because she was extraordinary even by the standards of her time (which, as I’ve… 308 more words

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Greer Garson is a beauty, but she’s no Gene Tierney or Jean Simmons in the looks department. Great actress though. Random Harvest was on TCM a couple of weeks ago and I was just really amazed at how good a movie can be if you have talent like Garson and Ronald Coleman.  New movies suck.

Elevator pitch 2: ‘But where are you REALLY from?’ — The Irish Savant

Being asked ‘where are you from?’ is an exasperating experience for black musician Nura from the band SXTN. The rapper said that when she tells people she’s from Germany, they often press further by asking, “but where are you really from?”. Her experience is common all over the world and it persists despite endless programming…

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They all look like they need a baby (Headhunter) on their hip…

I’m more than willing, yes, even for you flip-flops. I think you’d give me a sturdy kid. Yep, looks alike a definite “Big Love” scenario to me.

Watch this video (embedded in the pic), and if these charming young girls do not put a smile on your face, I don’t want to talk to you ever again. There’s more cuteness in there than a basket full of kittens…

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